I Love You but Letting Go


Letting go of the belief that there is such a thing as " the one" can liberate you from the idea that somehow, something in your life is wrong or broken when the relationship ends. Trust your path is as it's meant to be.

You can love someone and still have to let them go. It's possible to have someone in your life, and know that isn't possible. Sometimes people aren't able, willing or capable of showing up four us in the way we wish they would. Releasing them isn't declaration that we no longer love or care for them. It means we love ourselves enough to let go even when it hurts because we are a stand for healthy, honest relationships that inspire connection, intimacy and growth. 

No one can tell you what is right for you and what isn't. No one can tell you when the relationship is meant to end. or when you are being asked to stay in the game. But one thing for certain you are not required to give yourself away or pour yourself out in order to receive love. 

When we experience conditional love (and most of us did) we might form the belief that love hurts, that it's a roller coaster, that it's a chase. 

We migt be conditioned to expect let down, or have low standars for how people show up for us in our lives. This is why through all the inner work we do here., we consistently bring home the message of becoming the one. 

Of being in right relationship with ourselves, Healing our hearts and our inner world. Trusting in our innate worth and lovability. Reclaming our power and trusting that it's ok to set boundries, to expect respect, honesty and communication. 

Practice this work with yourself. Your feelings are valid. Your self-expression is beautiful. You are allowed to want what  you want. 

But darling, it isn't about those people who look at you 
but it's about you. You rather lie to somebody you love or go and change everything you ruinned. 

if you never tell the person you love the truth and you gonna keep living the lie.
if It's not a lie, people can change. They can change. And is that a bad thing ?
everything is better now. No one got hurt. 
well, it is about you, You rather lie to somebody you love than give all this up
But there is one thing you forget about. 
the more you gain by pretending. the less you exactly gonna have

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